Every Women’s Guide To Lasting Love
by M. L. Barthelemy
Written by a woman who finally and Actually WON in love, For Women who desire to win in love!
Written by Mrs. M. L. Barthelemy, Life Coach, Counselor, and Ordained Minister for all women who have had a hard time finding love, winning in love and getting married in this new millennium. The book is designed to help break the cycle of singleness for those who are single not by choice!
Why this book? Consider this book a tool book. An old Proverb says that a Wise Woman builds her house. You need tools to build that house and you also need tools to become a wise woman. This book is your guide to make it happen. I too, have made mistakes in love by giving too much, not enough, doing too much to not doing enough. After years of my own struggles and being rejected, left and heartbroken numerous times, I have finally LEARNED the art of mating, dating and yes, getting (happily) married! Yes, it is an art form built into nature.
What if you could learn the secrets of what makes a man give you his heart…forever? Why is it that you do everything a man says he wants, and then he runs off with a “lesser” woman than you? How is it that a man commits to a woman that you would never “place” him with? What makes a man get into “MARRIAGE MODE”? Why is it that some women are magnets to men even though she may be the “average” type? Why is it that when a man draws close to you, he abrubtly runs away? What if you can go into a man’s mind and figure out what makes him tick? What if you could finally decode this whole relationship thing and finally win in love?
You have a natural power inside you that makes any man want you!
Those old grandmothers were right! Before feminism, before women’s rights, women had to learn the art of the game to survive in a man’s world! And they MASTERED IT HONEY! They knew men better than men knew themselves! They learned how to catch, keep and get them to marry them AND treat them like a queen! I’m not trying to take you back to the dark ages, but they had something there! Somewhere in the mix of women gaining liberation and rights we personally sort of lost some of the natural basics in the wash! We totally rejected EVERYTHING we learned from granny! We actually threw the baby out with the bath water! We got our degrees, our careers, our money, our houses, cars and bank accounts and put love and marriage on the backburner. We placed ourselves understandably first, but not without price and great sacrifice.
Now with all of those sophisticated accomplishments, at the end of the day, we are still WOMAN! YES! We still want to be loved, we still want to be appreciated, we still want to be cared for. Yes, we are strong, but do we HAVE to be all the time? At the end of the day, we still must call a man to come and do the things we can’t anyways, like FIX STUFF! Lol. Sometimes we don’t want to put gas in our cars, sometimes we HATE the pressure of full household responsibility…we can do it all, but sometimes we don’t want to. Sometimes we want a husband to fight the world for us! Sometimes we get TIRED OF FIGHTING LIFE…PERIOD! Where is that knight in shining armor to sweep us off our feet????? Maybe granny wasn’t so wrong, after all.
To be specific I have a heart for women who have struggled for years to attract to find and keep the man that they love or that they want. Our culture dictates to us that we’re too loud or that we’re too strong, or that we’re too curvy or that we’re not pretty enough. Many of us are told that we’re not wanted or that we’re not enough of this or too much of that. I beg to differ. We are really everything that a real man wants.
You are everything that he wants and more. He just doesn’t know it yet! Sometimes, we need to adjust our presentation and “step up our game’ to get what we want. Now don’t get me wrong, it’s not that you’re in a desperate situation, it’s just that you know what you want and you are willing to do what it takes to get it. Love is a two-way street. It’s all about give and take. The dating process is the preparation for learning how to give of yourself, selflessly. The man that will marry you will completely give himself to you.
Are you ready to take that leap of love to give of yourself to receive all the love that you deserve? If you answered yes, then you are ready. The mere reason that you fothis book is a clear indicator that you are looking for direction and “how to”. It tells me a lot. It tells me that you are a wise woman looking for a way to improve your dating skills or that you are looking for a solution. We all need a little help from time to time. The wise learn from the wise become wiser. If you are ready to complete that journey of love and happiness please continue to read. Now lets the put pieces of the love puzzle together. Shall we?